Saturday, 19 October 2013

Apology

There’s a great scene at the end of the film, “The Big Kahuna” where Danny DeVito’s character counsels a young co-worker about his heavy-handed mode of evangelism. He says, “It doesn’t matter whether you’re selling Jesus or Buddha or civil rights or ‘How to Make Money in Real Estate with No Money Down.’
That doesn’t make you a human being; it makes you a marketing rep. If you want to talk to somebody honestly, as a human being, ask him about his kids. Find out what his dreams are - just to find out, for no other reason. Because as soon as you lay your hands on a conversation to steer it, it’s not a conversation anymore; it’s a pitch. And you’re not a human being; you’re a marketing rep.”
That scene sums up, for me, how the world sees the insincerity of our attempts to sell our faith the way a door-to-door salesman sells magazine subscriptions. As a young college student, I was very passionate about Christian Apologetics. I studied numerous books that taught me how to defend my Christian faith using science, history, archaeology, and logic. I got very good at constructing arguments designed to convince the skeptic and the unbeliever that Jesus really was the Son of God and that Christianity was the only way to believe. After several years of learning, and even teaching others, about the basics of Christianity and how to win those arguments of faith, I eventually came to a sobering realization. I realized that, in all my years of study, in all my numerous arguments about the validity of the Christian faith, I had never once argued anyone into trusting Jesus. Along the way I did have some great theological and mentally  stimulating discussions with people, but the fact was that my apologetics had not won a single person to Christ. That’s when I realized that the only apologetic that really matters is the apologetic of your life. No one can argue with your actual, personal experience. I realized that my life needed to reflect the transformational power of Jesus. If not, my logical arguments and brilliant proofs were useless. The real proof of what I was contending for was ultimately found in whether or not the Gospel had any real, transformational impact on my actual, every day life.Anything beyond that was just a mental exercise or an empty philosophical display. I’m certainly much more secure in the grounding of my faith due to the hours spent studying apologetics. There’s nothing wrong with knowing what you believe and why you believe it. But what is best for others, and especially for my own personal spiritual development, is for me to actually live out the Gospel in my daily life. The best apologetic possible is for me to share my personal struggles, failures, experiences and insights with others as I follow Jesus every single day.
This is what the Apostle Peter had in mind when he exhorted the early disciples of Jesus, in 1 Peter 3:15, to “..always be ready to give an answer, a reason for the hope that lies within.” This passage was written with the underlying assumption that the people he was writing to were living radically transformational lives within the culture they were part of. We know this is so because of what we see in both of Peter’s epistles to the Church, and also in the book of Acts. We also know this by looking at the first three hundred years of Church History.
The early followers of Jesus were living lives that were extremely different from those of the pagan world around them. Because of this, Peter encourages them to be ready to explain why they cared for lepers, and fed pagan widows, and shared personal belongings with anyone in need.
These days I fear we in the Church have largely lost this sense of living a different sort of life from those around us. We are not often found acting out such unbridled compassion to strangers, or caught in the act of serving others as Jesus commanded. We have been given a high calling to carry the Gospel of the Kingdom to the ends of the Earth. At the very least we must begin by taking this same Gospel to the end of our street, or to the house next door. We are the people God has chosen to carry the message of hope to a dying world. We are all called to be ambassadors of the Kingdom of God. We are expected to be salt and light wherever we are. How are we accomplishing this?
Early on in my Christian walk I heard the phrase, “The Gospel came to you on its way to someone else.” If so, the very next question is whether or not the Gospel has traveled onward to the next person in the chain. Have we passed the baton? Have we shared freely with others what was so freely given to us? If not, why? What prevents us from sharing the Good News? I  suspect it has something to do with the models we’ve been given. Most of us are not cut out to confront people with clever witnessing tracts at the shopping mall. We do not feel comfortable
approaching total strangers to sell them something they probably don’t want in the first place. We are paralyzed by our fear.
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Wouldn’t it be great if there were a more natural way to share our faith with others? Wouldn’t you be relieved to discover that God’s expectation of you was simply to be who He made you to be? Over the years I’ve learned to jettison the sales pitch version of evangelism in favor of a more natural method. If we can become more effective carriers of the Gospel message, if we can begin to live our lives as God intended us to live, I believe we can have a greater impact on our world for Christ.
This book aims to clear up a lot of misconceptions we may have about evangelism. I believe Jesus really had something exceptional in mind when He taught His disciples to be salt and light to the world and commanded them to go and make disciples. This is a journey I have only just begun, but I invite you to come along with me and discover what it really means to be a  missionary in your neighborhood, at your work, and in your everyday life.